A family member rescued him after he was under water for about five minutes, but the boy was lucky — his family says he is recovering. He was in critical condition in a Rochester hospital for days after the near-drowning.
So how can a child (or anyone of any age) slip underwater undetected like that without people noticing?
It’s easy and it happens all the time, because people don’t know the signs of a person in distress in the water.
There is a great (but chilling) story in Slate magazine that is making the rounds online. If friends of yours with children haven’t posted a link to it on Facebook, they will soon, and if they don’t, you should.
The column, “Drowning Doesn’t Look Like Drowning,” by Mario Vittone, is a great reminder of what drowning DOES NOT look like. Remember all those arms flailing in the water in your favorite movies and TV shows? Nope. It usually doesn’t happen like that. Drowning is a silent killer, and that’s what has so many parents freaked out.
In the Slate article, a former lifeguard springs into action when he spots the telltale signs of a person drowning 50 feet away. He swam furiously toward a couple in the water, who were trying to tell him they were fine. Fortunately, the former lifeguard kept coming and swam 10 feet past them to rescue their 9-year-old daughter, who was drowning. Ten feet away. And they never noticed, because it was happening very quietly.
From the Slate article:
The Instinctive Drowning Response (IDR), so named by Francesco A. Pia, Ph.D., is what people do to avoid actual or perceived suffocation in the water. And it does not look like most people expect. There is very little splashing, no waving, and no yelling or calls for help of any kind. To get an idea of just how quiet and undramatic from the surface drowning can be, consider this: It is the No. 2 cause of accidental death in children, ages 15 and under (just behind vehicle accidents)—of the approximately 750 children who will drown next year, about 375 of them will do so within 25 yards of a parent or other adult. Dr. Pia describes IDR this way:
- “Except in rare circumstances, drowning people are physiologically unable to call out for help. The respiratory system was designed for breathing. Speech is the secondary or overlaid function. Breathing must be fulfilled before speech occurs.
- Drowning people’s mouths alternately sink below and reappear above the surface of the water. The mouths of drowning people are not above the surface of the water long enough for them to exhale, inhale, and call out for help. When the drowning people’s mouths are above the surface, they exhale and inhale quickly as their mouths start to sink below the surface of the water.
- Drowning people cannot wave for help. Nature instinctively forces them to extend their arms laterally and press down on the water’s surface. Pressing down on the surface of the water permits drowning people to leverage their bodies so they can lift their mouths out of the water to breathe.
- Throughout the Instinctive Drowning Response, drowning people cannot voluntarily control their arm movements. Physiologically, drowning people who are struggling on the surface of the water cannot stop drowning and perform voluntary movements such as waving for help, moving toward a rescuer, or reaching out for a piece of rescue equipment.
- From beginning to end of the Instinctive Drowning Response people’s bodies remain upright in the water, with no evidence of a supporting kick. Unless rescued by a trained lifeguard, these drowning people can only struggle on the surface of the water from 20 to 60 seconds before submersion occurs.”
Here are some other signs of someone in distress in the water to look for, according to the article:
- Head low in the water, mouth at water level.
- Head tilted back with mouth open.
- Eyes glassy and empty, unable to focus.
- Eyes closed.
- Hair over forehead or eyes.
- Not using legs—vertical.
- Hyperventilating or gasping.
- Trying to swim in a particular direction but not making headway.
- Trying to roll over on the back.
- Appear to be climbing an invisible ladder.
Never let anyone swim alone, at any age. Always be mindful of where people are in the water. Remember these parents, who had no idea their beautiful 9-year-old daughter probably would’ve died if not for the heroic efforts of a former lifeguard.
Never swim in a river, but if you do, wear a life preserver. In short, respect the water and understand it can be a silent killer.
Thanks for reading, and be careful in the water this summer!